UPDATED
- April 29, 2006
In
case you are interested in the last set of questions,
here is a link to the previous
Q/A Forum.
And
now, here are Gabriel's responses to the next series of questions
asked by all of you...
For
about the past 10 days I have been having pains throughout my
body - headaches, general body aches and tremendous pressure in
my solar plexus (which moves from side to side but is mostly on
my right side) as well as dull pains in my throat chakre. I have
also been extremely tired and I found myself crying very easily
when thinking aboutsome of my issues. Any input on this would
be most welcome.
It
is a time when you are in a process of entrainment. For those
who are unfamiliar with the term - it is a term used in physics.
It is a law of energy that says when there is a dominant field
of higher energy, all lower, denser energies will seek to move
to entrain with the higher energy.
You
are all going through the process of entrainment at this time,
as higher energies of the Photon Belt are causing a spiral upward
in the body. All of your bodies are being affected. This means
that everything of a lower vibration - including the old experiences
and memories held in your cellular memory - will come up for clearing.
Physical
symptoms are a part of that entrainment. The pain of an unresolved
emotional experience is held in the body tissue. At the top of
the entrainment point, you are being asked to work through the
resistance, shame and fear associated with this, in order to release
the pain and integrate a clean slate of cells.
The
healing crisis will encourage you to surrender to old behaviors,
reactions and defensive ways of perceiving. If you respond, feel
your feelings and choose to let go of the past attachments and
decisions, you will take the old and transmute it into a new form.
As
you practice these qualities of the heart - such as clear choice,
compassion, forgiveness and trust, you will see how these qualities
will support a new experience of your reality in the physical.
We cannot say specifically where it will all go, but encourage
you that you are working to create an entirely new model of life
on Earth.
We
have read in the Monthly Weather Reports what our physical bodies
might be experiencing as we move through these unprecedented times,
but want to know if anything is happening to us internally or
chemically.
You
might say that these are all part of the same thing, creating
all the shifts necessary, working together to prepare your for
the energy of the soul.
The
physical body has typically been the last place to register the
energy shifts, as it is the world of physical form that merely
reflects the movements of energy at its essence.
As
you develop sensitivity, you will first learn to interpret the
energies through your thoughts and feelings - based on the impulses
that vibrate through the body. These impulses create chemical
responses and you experience them partially as feelings.
It
is important that you pay attention and respond to these feelings
- all the more reason for you to work on healing the past wounds
of the emotional body - so that you can learn to interpret the
energetic messages through your intuition and not through your
fear.
The
emotional and mental are in essence the invisible that determine
and command the world of manifestation of the physical. The repitition
of old conditioned thoughts and feelings will sustain the same
reality over time. To shift your reality, you must shift your
old emotional and mental patterns and decisions.
I
find the concept of forgiveness very slippery. Is acceptance a
big part of it? Does forgiveness still allow boundaries to be
set? If boundaries are firmly set, what does that do to the loving
open heart in relationship to the other person? Can one forgive,
set boundaries and continue to be loving?
This
is a great question - one that is often misunderstood on your
planet.
What
you have not understood about forgiveness is that it is a process.
You cannot merely make a mental decision to forgive and let go
- and actually have the heart experience of forgiveness.
You
must first work through the negatively charged energies that have
held you in unforgiveness. For instance you must process the blame,
the anger, the despair and even the desire for vindication - so
that you free your energies from the emotional attachments of
the past and of the subconscious wounds.
If
you merely make a mental decision, you will be squelching the
parts of you that truly need your compassion. You have been a
world of wounded children stuck in the first stage of love - which
is maternal, infantile love. It is caught up in the first stages
of your development - focused outward for the reassurance that
someone LOVES you or that you are LOVEABLE.
This
is a vital stage to a child. And you all need to go back to the
wounds of that childhood and learn to fill in the wounded gaps
that came from living in a world that did not know how to honor,
value and nurture you consistently.
You
now need the tools and guidance that will allow you to honor yourselves
and to love one another. For instance, working with a practitioner
who can hold a loving space consistently for you is one way to
see that BEING LOVED is possible.
Of
course, within that what needs to be modeled is the ability to
set and honor clear, loving boundaries. If you do not learn how
to have your own boundaries and how to honor the boundaries of
others, you will stay trapped in the primitive stage of infantile
love - unfulfilled.
You
all actually need a clear model of needs and a clear model of
forgiveness. We have spent years passing on these tools to people,
such as the channel and his business partner (Robert and Ron).
They not only hold a clear, loving space for people to move into
the healing of this first stage of love, but they understand that
you all must grow into the second and third stages of love as
well. These are the stages when you know that you CAN LOVE and
have a wonderful impact on those around you - followed by the
stage where you know you ARE LOVE and practive it through willing
giving and receiving.
Before
you can move to those stages, you most begin to heal the infantile
love you have been in - so we will show you what has been the
typical experience and misunderstanding of forgiveness.
A
person stuck in the unfulfilled need to BE LOVED thinks this is
the whole goal. With this goal, you will never individuate, but
rather will do the things that you think you "should"
do to manipulate and control your environment. You have done this
to be seen a certain way, to get reassurance and validation or
to be liked. These are your replacements for love and do not serve
you in becoming empowered individuals.
In
this old model you have gone through the gesture of forgiving
- without dealing with the wound - because you SHOULD and you
are in the fear of not being liked or the fear of being wrong.
To the wounded child, this might confirm that you are actually
unloveable.
Of
course, this can never be true, but you cannot just tell your
nervous system this new reality. You must heal the old paradigm,
resolve these fearful myths and interrupt the bahaviors that have
perpetuated your primitive understanding of love.
You
need to practice loving yourselves as a top priority. You need
to go to the wounded child and deal directly with the unresolved
feelings that are held there. If you do not, you will continue
to act them out on one another or act them in on yourself. Both
of these choices only confirm your myths by building more shame
of self.
As
you deal with these wounded feelings, releasing the energy of
unforgiveness, you will be readier to move into forgiveness itself
- with clear boundaries about what is acceptable and what is not.
You will not be led like wounded children trying to please others
to get them to reassure you of your worth.
As
you resolve the inner, you will KNOW your worth. It is inherent
in who you are.
Work
with each other on this process. Get the help you need. Practice
the ability to be authentic - being able to say yes and to say
no when you need to.
Be
true to your inner self. And get on with the loving possibilities
of the heart that become possible when you are not so trapped
in the primitive stages of love that are being explored in the
lower self. You have a lot to look forward to as you practice
these things.
How
can I serve the whole with the wisdom I have, and at the same
time keep balance in my own life - particularly with the dis-ease
I have im my body? And am I fooling myself by believing that I
can eventually heal myself from this liver-disease?
As
you learn to contain your individuality more and more fully, you
will all be able to give and receive without creating imbalance.
The
fact that you have a liver disease at this time indicates that
you are not in a position at this time to assimilate it and conquer
it simply from your own energetic resources. Otherwise it would
not be present. We suggest that you use wisdom with humility to
deal with what IS - by taking advantage of all the tools, treatments,
etc that have proven to be of help to support you in the move
towards healing.
If
we are understanding your question, we don't want you to go to
an idealized spot and put the pressure on yourself to try and
heal this simply on your own. Do your inner work and also take
advantage of all options that are there to help - to honor the
highest good and learning.
I
am worried, will I go to a different dimension or die during this
ascension process, I dont feel part of this planet and dont feel
like I am going to hang around, and would not mind leaving but
I have a 7 year old son who I love very much, I dont want to leave
him or for him to be without his mother, that would be cruel to
say the least. He is having dreams of me dissapearing. I am hoping
this will not be the case. Please could you advise on what could
happen to me and my son. Thank you.
Your
son has had dreams simply because he is picking up on the communication
that is being given him on an energetic level - even from your
own fears. It does not mean that you are actually leaving the
planet. That is entirely up to you.
If
you desire and choose to work consciously in this body then you
can do it here. It is your choice. There is no future that we
see that is set in motion for you to definitely leave or stay.
We see a life in progress with choices...
However,
as people reach this point of planetary shifts, they will sense
a death - that will be followed by a rebirth, if you work through
the process and allow it to take place. The Book of Revelations
is taking place at this time. It is about the final conflict of
the survival paradigm of your lower wills and ego.
If
you do not deal with your feelings, you will find yourselves wanting
to escape them in any way possible. Many are left feeling at this
time that they would rather die than face the despair and wounded
feelings that are rising. We assure you that death is no escape
from the consciousness that you have built in your history of
lifetimes and wounded emotions.
The
only solution is to deal with these feelings with great compassion.
Make clear choices for life and responding to all of life through
your opening hearts - and that is what you will be putting out
to your son and to the universe.
I
do not believe that being critical with yourself or another person
works. In my view being critical has not to do with love. Could
you explain to us about the nature of criticism?
There are two forms of criticism. One is merely feedback that
is encouraging growth or resolution. However, the second form
that is very judgmental and even full of condemnation is what
we believe that you are asking about.
We suggest that you look to yourselves with the first form of
criticism, so that you can see what serves and what does not as
you move into more evolved choices and awareness. And when you
trust someone to give another opinion, you can ask clearly for
their feedback or critical discernment.
However, to simply offer criticism to others, as if it is your
right is not loving. It is controlling. And if you look honesly,
you will see that any time you are controlling others, it is usually
because you do not like how you feel when they act a certain way.
Look to yourselves with the same kind of diligence that you have
put on others. This again comes from a world trapped in the infantile
stages of love - where we are seeking to GET love from outside
ourselves. And in order to accomplish that, the wounded child
things they must change anything outside of themselves that reminds
them of their fears and myths.
This will never work. So practice compassionate self-criticism.
And learn to love through this important feedback.
Encourage others from the new place of loving that will open
in your own consciousness. And offer criticism to them only if
they are open to it.
Love one another...
If
you are a new member of this web site, we say -
Welcome
to this new segment of the Member Site. This is one way that we
are giving all of you around the world the chance to personally
ask Gabriel your questions.
Having
access to the wisdom of Gabriel has has been an invaluable resource
to us at Children of Light. That
is why we are creating more chances to offer that same opportunity
to you.
We
have taken the questions that you have submitted - that can apply
to all of us in some way - and are bringing you the compassion
and wisdom of Gabriel. As long as you continue to send in questions,
we will post a new set as often as possible - approximately once
a month (depending on how many questions come in).
There
are NO LIMITS to the subjects you questions can explore, as Gabriel
will offer remarkable insight into any arena. Although Gabriel
could go on at great length about any of these questions, we have
asked him to be succinct with the answers here. This is merely
to give us a chance to address more of your questions.
We
hope you will enjoy this new addition to the Member Site.
Blessings!
